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Almost everyone has received legal advice from a friend, a relative, or the internet that came with total confidence and zero credentials. It usually starts with, “I’m not a lawyer, but…” and ends with you believing you’re protected by some secret loophole. Unfortunately, the law doesn’t work on vibes or common sense. Some of the most widely repeated legal “facts” are not only wrong, but potentially expensive if you rely on them.

“If It’s on the Internet, It Must Be Legal”

There’s a common belief that anything publicly available online is fair game to use however you want. Photos, videos, articles, and even music clips often fall under copyright, regardless of how easy they are to access. Just because you can download or repost something doesn’t mean you’re allowed to. Copyright law cares about ownership, not convenience, and assuming otherwise can land people in serious trouble.

“I Didn’t Know the Law, So I’m Not Responsible”

Ignorance feels like it should count for something, but legally, it usually doesn’t. Not knowing a law exists rarely protects you from consequences. The legal system assumes people are responsible for understanding the rules that apply to them, even if those rules are complicated or poorly explained. It’s frustrating, but “I didn’t know” is rarely the winning argument people hope it will be.

“Verbal Agreements Don’t Count”

This one sounds logical, especially in a world obsessed with paperwork and signatures. In reality, many verbal agreements can be legally binding. The problem isn’t whether they’re valid—it’s whether they’re provable. Without documentation, disputes often turn into one person’s word against another’s. Verbal contracts can be real, but they’re also risky, which is why written agreements exist in the first place.

“If They Didn’t Read It, It Doesn’t Apply”

People love to believe that not reading a contract somehow weakens it. Unfortunately, signing something usually means you agreed to it, whether you read every word or not. Courts generally don’t accept “I didn’t read it” as a defense. Fine print may be annoying, but ignoring it doesn’t make it disappear. The responsibility is on the signer, not the document.

“If It’s Fair, the Law Will Side With Me”

Fairness and legality are not the same thing, and this is one of the hardest truths for people to accept. The law doesn’t always align with what feels morally right. Someone can behave unfairly and still act within their legal rights. Relying on what “should” happen instead of what the law actually says often leads to disappointment and bad outcomes.

“I Can Handle This Without a Lawyer”

There’s a strong temptation to handle legal issues solo, especially to save money. While some situations truly are simple, many people underestimate how complex legal processes can be. One missed deadline or poorly worded statement can cause long-term damage. Lawyers aren’t just for courtrooms—they’re there to prevent small problems from becoming big ones.

Bad legal advice often spreads because it sounds reasonable, confident, and reassuring. The problem is that the law doesn’t reward assumptions or shortcuts. While this isn’t legal advice itself, the safest takeaway is simple: be skeptical of anything that sounds like a universal legal rule. When real consequences are on the line, checking the facts—or talking to an actual professional—can save you far more than it costs.